Dao succumbs to cancer

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Emily Dao and boyfriend Steven Chiang in Washington shortly after she began treatment for colon cancer.

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Emily Dao, 20, who was the subject of a short series in the Collegiate Times last year chronicling her diagnosis of late stage colon cancer, died Aug 12.

Dao, who had been stricken by a cancer that is extremely rare in women her age, underwent a vigorous and debilitating chemotherapy regimen to combat the tumors and granted a series of interviews to the Collegiate Times to follow her journey through attempted recovery, and ultimate acceptance.

"I have so many people that care for me, and that is truly the most important thing to me," Emily wrote in a February e-mail. "I wouldn't be able to get through all of this without my sisters, friends, faculty and all the other good-hearted people (random people that contact me because they've heard about my situation even though I don't know them; they do it just because they care so much) that have been giving me such strength and encouragement."

In the early part of a promising year for the accounting and information systems major, Dao said she had stomach pains over the span of several weeks so she sought a medical examination. She learned in November 2008 she had Stage IV Colon Cancer. Her doctors described her case as "terminal."

Dao immediately left Tech to have surgery to remove a large portion of a five-inch diameter tumor that had blocked her colon and trapped dangerous toxins inside her body. After recovering from the operation, Dao then started a long series of potent chemotherapeutic treatments.

The sessions exhausted her and she slept 20 to 23 hours a day.

She developed large dark blotches on her skin and lost a significant amount of weight off her already slight frame. She initially took the treatments in stride and kept up a high level of optimism, and even had an exclusive internship at Ernst & Young where she worked with major clients including Marriott.

"I'm currently on a huge client that they have -- Marriott International," Emily wrote in February. "It's a busy season right now, so I've been working overtime every week, but I love it."

Bad news from her doctors caused her significant alarm. They told her the treatments had been useless. The tumors had metastasized to her lungs and liver, and had grown in size since starting the drugs.

In the spring of 2009 Dao started experimental treatments at Georgetown Medical center. Her sorority held a series of philanthropic events in her honor under the banner of "Down for Dao."

They had a concert at the Lyric, sponsored a Relay for Life team, and campaigned for donations to help with the bills from her medical expenses. Dao, who later embraced her plight, expressed thanks to her sorority sisters for their help, and enduring compassion."Nothing makes me happier than being at Virginia Tech, and it's really the greatest school on Earth," Emily wrote in February. "Nowhere else would I meet such great people that are so supportive and helpful."

Survivors include her parents, and a sister.

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Sara Tickle | # August 13, 2009 @ 4:52 PM — Flag Comment

"Now you belong to heaven, and the stars spell out your name." I kept in touch with Emily, she was one of our Pamplin students where I work. I sent her cards I had the whole office to sign. We sent her flowers to brighten her day. She was an inspiration to me, and from the time I knew about her situation she made me want to try to be a better person. Emily was amazing with the kind of courage that is rare. She was amazingly beautiful on the inside and the out. In 20 years she accomplished more than most people do in a lifetime, and touched the lives of so many, including mine.

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Jim | # August 14, 2009 @ 8:59 AM — Flag Comment

I'm a recent grad of Virginia Tech. I just got the news thru news feed and read all about the situation. I'm sure her sorority was honored to have someone like her, and rest in peace fellow Hokie....

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Chris | # August 19, 2009 @ 8:05 AM — Flag Comment

Rest in Peace Emily..

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Jenny and Melissa Parks | # August 29, 2009 @ 11:44 PM — Flag Comment

Although we didn't know you, if you were anything like your wonderful sister then you were an awesome girl. May you Rest in Peace and may Jesus Christ lift up your family and friends. You will always be in our Hearts and Prayers. Much love and Hope, The Parks Family

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